Among her many interesting quirks, and she has many, Sidney has decided that she really likes to go outside. She will pace, circle, whine and stretch until someone allows her to escape the confines of our spacious home.
However, once outside, she might get a drink of water or tinkle in the grass…Or she might not. Either way, she is quickly back to the patio door watching for any and all movement inside. At this point in the game, she had decided that she really likes to come inside. She will pace, circle, whine and stretch until someone lets her escape from the expanse of our back yard.
Within 20-30 minutes, this cycle repeats itself. The dog cannot make up her mind. Inside? Outside? Inside? Outside? There are so many wonderful things that a dog would love just outside the door but all her important people are still inside! The decision is too difficult. Her little dog brain is in constant conflict so with her big dog heart. She lives a life of distraction, unable to decide where she wants to be and what she wants to do.
It’s pathetic, really. But, in truth, it is not too dissimilar from our own journeys through life.
We want the next great gadget but we also want serenity and peace.
We want the bigger, better house but we also want to rest on weekends.
We want the fatter paycheck but we also want to work less and relax more.
Are we in or are we out? Do we want the adventure or do we want the comfort?
Perhaps today we can try to escape this neurotic pattern. Perhaps today we can enjoy life where we live. Make the most of the quiet without seeking the noise. Take advantage of the day, the hour, the minute by doing nothing.
Listen to the birds and feel the sunshine on your face.
Put a great piece of music on the stereo and let it move your soul.
Turn off the TV and play cards with your family and friends.
Turn on the radio and listen to the baseball game the old fashioned way.
Enjoy a long walk and never once look at your watch.
Be present. Live life without distraction. Enjoy your location, wherever it might be.