Several years ago I purchased a Dogwood tree for my wife’s Mother’s Day present. She was thrilled as it is one of her favorites. We planted the little sprout in the front corner of our yard, hoping that one day it would be the show piece of our yard.
Despite following the instructions for planting and care, the little tree failed to grow. It never looked like it was going to die but after its second year without flowers and any sign of growth, I went to our local garden center.
I explained the situation and the wise gardener behind the counter asked one, simple question.
“Is it planted on the south-east corner of your house in full sun?” he asked with a slight squint of his eyes.
Now, I’m a pretty smart guy but I had to stop and think of where the sun set and the direction I drove to work before I could answer his question. When I confirmed that this, in fact, was the location of the tree, he answered with confidence.
“They hate to be exposed. They like to be tucked back in the protection of your house or other trees. You need to move it to the north-east corner of your lot.”
And so I took his advice and moved the little shrub, hoping that I didn’t wait too long. I tucked it back behind the house, near our pine tree. It now lives in
And here is the thing: The very next year we saw flowers for the first time. The year after that, we had new growth sprouting from its branches. Each year brought more exciting changes to the little tree. This year is it’s best ever. The limbs are filled with full, bright flowers. There are many new shoots poking out in all directions just waiting for the day that leaves will provide a fantastic canopy of shade.
As I took in the amazing blooms yesterday, I realized that we are a lot like this old Dogwood. Some of us thrive when we are in the spot light. There are those of us who prefer to stand out, bold and loud. But there are some of us who do best when we can be out of the public view, most beautiful when we are left to our own devices. Growing best when we are tucked into a safe place, rarely noticed until we are in full bloom.
What location do you prefer? Where should you be planted? Where do you produce your most beautiful flowers?